can we be friends?

I’m still writing about friendship cuz I was giving it a lot of thought lately…

Being used to be surrounded be my loved ones, friends and family all together and growing up in my small town with those that were by my side since I can remember… I think I developed this need of being attached and always connected to the ones I love in a much bigger way than simply “knowing the person, hang out now and then, make a few calls a week to just keep it going and name all the above friendship”.
I was thought better that that… I’d like to believe.

So, obviously I continued with thinking about human connection and I found myself understanding that the love we keep talking about doesn’t need to come just from boys and girls we share sexual activities with… I mean… Jesus, seriously? 😒
Why is the run after “the one” such a big deal?
If we would share and balance our feelings towards more humans around us, maybe the pressure towards one human wouldn’t be so much and everything would have a whole new meaning and characteristics….

We can create so much love with our friends and feel complete even though we’re single or even though we’re astronauts and won’t come back to earth….
Why do we forget how great is the love on this planet, regardless the source of it?
Fewer people would end up in divorce is my belief…. really.

But what happened when I got deeper into the topic? I found myself feeling a little blue cuz I feel like we don’t do friendships anymore… not like that anyway. These days, being close to somebody in an old fashion, gets to be called “intense or too emotional” and I kinda don’t know what to do with this information :))

I would very much like to go back to being intense and too emotional with my friends, please….

Can you find me any?

I’m saying the truth though.

Endless emotional and intense love.





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