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wind of change

People say that we don’t change… that deep inside, in our essence we will always stay the same… That changes, if they ever come, will be small adjustments here and there but nothing fundamental.

I wonder if that’s true….

People also say that we are who we surround ourselves with… and they also say “show me who your friends are and I’ll show you who you are”.

For the sake of exercise I’ll pretend that this is true and that we are the same as our friends, but what happens if absurdly we loose our friends, do we change then?
And if we do… how?

I still wonder…

All I can say is all that I’ve learned. And that is that reasons to change might be thousands. This life is so unpredictable that opportunities to be different, either you like it or not…. might be even more than you will sometimes handle.

The changes we embrace? I just hope they’ll make us proud… cuz I don’t think I believe in that “we don’t change thing”.

I believe in wishing to be happy and complete and I believe in doing everything humanly possible to make that happen.

That is what I believe.

So tell me if you ever feel like you need to change…
Is it possible to change?

Endless love,

Me.

competition

“Because she competes with no one, no one can compete with her…”

Cuz now that I think about I, don’t believe in competition, at all. I hate it a little, even though I know that they say, most winners are very competitive… Well, I see it consuming and pointless and I think it ruins people, humans in general and even friends, foolish enough to compete.

Because I think it’s about the goal and not about the person who wants the same goal as you do… it’s still about the goal and the prize and about what you win in the end. That shouldn’t be a competition, that should be PURPOSE.

Worth competing for? Maybe Time. Time would be a good reason to compete, but I don’t think that kind of time will help someone… in any way.

So I believe this world has endless opportunities. I don’t remember well really… but I think it was a designer that said

“I’m not interested in competing with anyone , I hope we all make it” 

…. ‘Cuz me too!

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Lots of love,

Me.